Monday, November 06, 2006
few days ago.. i tot of something b4 falling aslp.. i hope i can recall most of it..
i was thnking bout relationships.. as in.. going steady.. finding gf bf.. ok.. heres how it goes..
mostly all relationships started out as frens.. you got to know each other.. introduce urself to him/her... from there.. u decide whther u think.. it is possible to be with him/her.. tats why u see everyone flirting around when they see each other the first time yea.. lol.. x.x... few times lata its either.. flirting even more or not at all...
in the case of flirting even more.. you think tat he/she might be the one.. so you start asking them out.. to try to understand them more.. well.. to me.. its wasting time and money.. x.x... juz have fun.. forget bout knowing each other.. when u realise its not juz fun your looking for from them.. its.. something more complicated.. then u decide to ask for her hand.. everything goes well.. and u got togther...
this is the most difficult part.. being in a relationship... its the UNDERSTANDING PART... its the most heart hurting or the most heart filling part.. being in a relationship.. you began to know.. stuffs.. stuffs u shud and shudnt know.. tats when the test comes along.. you got to know them even better... either its a long relation ship or a short one.. comes to this..
i put everything to short.. coz im ASKED TO DOTA...
if in a relationship.. u think you 2 can make in thru together.. its marriage.. if not.. break up.. there is nothing to be sad about.. juz tat you know her/him too well.. but in most cases.. it hurts DAM LOTS...
so before going into a relationship... think wisely.. will it hurt both of you in return?.. or those it bring both of you together?... sometimes its not love tats blind.. its our eyes tat working properly tats blinding us... =).. DOTA....
*[[ And they lived happily ever after... ]]*
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